My mom only had one eye. I hated her... She was such an embarrassment. .
She cooked for students & teachers to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to
Say hello to me.

I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me?
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of my classmates said, 'EEEE, your mom only
Has one eye!'

I wanted to bury myself.
I also wanted my mom to just disappear..
I confronted her that day and said, ' If you're only gonna make me a
Laughing stock, why don't you just die?'

My mom did not respond....
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because
I was full of anger.
I was oblivious to her feelings.

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.
So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study.
Then, I got married.
I bought a house of my own.
I had kids of my own.
I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts, Then one day, my
Mother came to visit me.
She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her
Grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at
Her for coming over uninvited.
I screamed at her, 'How dare you come to my house and scare my
Children!'
GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!'

And to this, my mother quietly answered, 'Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have
Gotten the wrong address,'
And she disappeared out of sight.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.
After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.


My neighbors said that she died.
I did not shed a single tear.
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

'My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and
Scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.
But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were
Growing up.

You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident, and
Lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you
Having to grow up with one eye.
So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my
Place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother.

Send this to at least 10 people in the next 5 minutes to show you love
your mother.
If you don't then it shows you have no heart

Always tell someone that you love them because you never know what day
Will be their last, or your own
Always seek to resolve your problems or disagreements with loved ones
Because if either of you should pass on before, the one who is left
alive will have the rest of their life to ponder those unresolved
feelings but will never find closure. And closure usually brings
Peace...

'I asked God, 'How do I get the best out of life?'
God said, 'Face your past without regrets. Handle your present with
confidence. And prepare for the future without fear!''




For all that has been, Thanks!
For all that will be , YES!

You Never Know What You Can Do,, Unless You ....TRY

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You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive.
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Tense moments. Planning to go out with your date but wondering what you're gonna do. Here are a few tips to see you through the day.

The dating rule

• Be punctual. Leave your house early and make room for any last minute blips that may creep up. Girls don't like to be kept waiting.



• Plan your day, but be open to her views as well



• Dress elegantly. Look neither too cool nor overtly formal. Be tidy and smell good. Be courteous.



• Pick your date from her house. And don't forget to ask for directions so that you are able to reach there in time



• Buying flowers for her is a good way to strike the right note. If the date went off well, you may get the flowers delivered to your lady's house the next day.



• Don't walk in front of your date. Either walk besides her or a step behind. It's nothing to do with ego. It's not good manners to show your back to someone you are with.



• Pull the chair for her and wait for her to sit. Remember etiquette is much appreciated. . In the same vein, open the car door for her. It's better if you can wait for her to sit and then close the door. Then see if she is considerate enough to reach out and open the door for you.



• Greet her with a firm but gentle handshake, and a smile. Maintain eye contact, but don't stare.



• Don't let the focus of the conversation be "I, me and myself". Ask about your date's interests, likes et al. Try to know her. But don't ask personal and probing questions if it's the first date.



• Learn to compliment. Don't keep your upper lip stiff. Learn to smile and crack jokes.



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Dating tips for Girls


• Don't believe 'everything' you hear or all that you see because if you are old enough to date then you should be old enough to know - everything that glitters is not gold.



• Now that doesn't mean that you should go for a date with 'distrust' written all over you - leave your righteousness at home, but carry your common sense with you. Loosen up, be friendly and enjoy yourself (after all that's the sole purpose of spending time together).



• Go beyond the gloss - be yourself, don't spend the time discussing the weather and smiling at each other. By the end of the day, if all you know about him is his name and the number of teeth he could possibly have, then you're destined to be perfect strangers forever. So the key word is 'communicate', share your interests. If you vibe well and you can strike up a lively discussion, then the date hasn't been wasted - you've gained a friend.



• Good manners aren't just for school but for life - Be polite and appreciative - courtesy is cool - everyone appreciates it. (If he doesn't, what more can we say? The ultimate decision is yours and of course 'taming the barbarian' is a challenge that some of us just can't resist.



• The golden maxim girls: 'never date more than one guy at a time' is sad but so true. If they turn out to be friends, you're in trouble - if they're enemies, you're in trouble, apart from this coincidental hazard there can be practical hitches too - it can be totally confusing at times - mixing up dates, interests, names - it only gets worse.



• If a person who doesn't exactly look like a Greek God, seems to be a good guy and is fun to be with, give him a break, a chance. You always have an option 'have fun with an intellectually stimulating partner' or learn to place a dumb Greek God on a pedestal and worship him.



• Talk to his friends nicely when he introduces them to you, make him feel proud of you. Don't ever criticize him in front of his friends.



• family tree. For he does not intend to chronicle your family history. Find some mutual interests, ask him his opinion, listen to his comments. If he commences on his family saga, it is fine if you're interested but if you're not - just don't yawn in his face. Try and change the topic, if it doesn't work, grin and bear it.
  


• If he bristles every time you mention your friends who happen to be boys or glares at you when you smile at that goodlooking neighbour, imagine the kind of life you're going to share and if you value your independence, well you know your priorities.
  


• If he criticizes your choice of food or clothes, then this one is a definite 'No go'. After you've decided to accept him as he is, if he is still concentrating on what you should wear to please him, you're going to end up with a nag if you don't take care.
  


• There is nothing wrong with enjoying yourself, just don't drink too much. You might end up with a headache and a possible heartache the next morning.
  


• Honesty is the name of the game. If the person is genuine enough he is going to appreciate an honest conversation. Fake foundations tend to crumble in the long run. Lies or false appearances aren't going to lead you anywhere because romance thrives on trust.
  

According to ancient Arabic literature,

Hub...
eyes meet,
it is like a touch...
a spark...
------------------ Attraction